Recent Survey by Millionaire Match Dating Site Shows That Rich Women Are Not Necessarily Looking for Rich Men

MillionaireMatch recently surveyed more than 230,000 female members whose annual income was above $200,000. According to the data, more than 82% of the accomplished women have no preference for income and net worth when they are looking for men online.

The millionaire dating website surveyed 220,000+ straight women and 8,000 bisexual women and lesbians. When asked about income and net worth, more than 190,000 women said they had no preference while 30,000 would like their match to be equal in financial status. About 90,000 women preferred their match to be Caucasian white while others said they were okay with dating interracially. Only 40,000+ women would like their match to have a Bachelor’s degree and 39,000+ women would like a very good-looking partner.

For over a decade, MillionaireMatch has been serving a very exclusive, elite clientele of rich and attractive men and women, offering a platform and making it an easy and enjoyable experience for meeting new people. Daters can access the site on a mobile or tablet using Millionaire Match’s mobile site, iOS app and Android app. The app works like Tinder, but it also has significant differences from Tinder in that it gives users two profiles to like or pass at a time, while Tinder only gives one. Also, the app provides its users with a chat room and a feature to search certified millionaires or search by income. 

The perils of the billionaire dating pool

What a deliciously unlikely love match. In the glitzy corner is Jerry Hall, 59, the leggy Texan model, former partner of Mick Jagger, famous for saying 'The more flesh you show, the higher up the ladder you go.’ In the gritty old corner is hard-nosed media titan Rupert Murdoch, 84. It’s so juicy, it’s scarcely believable. How did they get together? What on earth do they talk about? Do neither mind the 25-year age gap?

It’s all too easy to envy rich divorcées like Jerry (though, technically, her and Jagger’s 1990 Balinese wedding ceremony was declared unlawful by the High Court). With exceptional good looks, pots of cash, kids who’ve flown the nest and a career of sorts, you’d imagine there must a multitude of highly desirable men, permanently in hot pursuit.

The evergreen supermodel has certainly stepped out with a few, since splitting with her Rolling Stone in 1999 - from 'toyboy’ hedge fund financier, Tim Attias, to property magnate Warwick Hemsley. But after her brief relationship with jet-set scientist Armand Leroi ended, earlier this year, she lamented, “I don’t get propositioned by anybody as much as I used to.”

Now here she is with Rupert Murdoch, a man with private jets galore but only six years shy of 90. Not exactly a conventional dreamboat.

“As a famous person, finding someone who completes your jigsaw can be a tricky business,” says Mairead Molloy, global director of blue-chip dating agency Berkeley International, which charges its UK-only members a jaw-dropping £10,000 a year (throw in Europe and it’s £15,000). “You’re in a bubble - and you can’t go down to the pub without being papped, or snapped in a selfie.”

Molloy, a vicacious blonde of 46, is speaking to me from Cannes, where her agency has a 'key’ office. You can almost hear the Champagne corks popping on the super-yachts and see the oligarchs firing up their Lamborghinis.

Having spent years matchmaking rich, mainly divorced women (most of whom are 34 to 58) with well-off males “in and around a five year age gap”, Molloy believes that if you don’t sign up with a high-end dating agency, and aren’t blessed with a wide circle of friends, single life at the top is sure to be tough. “I wish Jerry would give me a ring,” she says. “I’d help her.”
The truth is, it isn’t as easy as you might think for any wealthy woman emerging from a long marriage to find a new significant other.

A survey of 5,000 millionaire members of the dating site MillionaireMatch.com, last year, found that 70 per cent of their female members said they would never marry again, as opposed to just five per cent of men.

70% of women wouldn't marry again according to Millionaire Match
Given many may only be back on the market, in the first place, thanks to a cheating husband, such wariness may be understandable.

Plus, unlike men, said Fran Walfish, a Beverley Hills psychotherapist, “a woman’s ego cannot bear to tolerate a man using her for her money. She needs to know she is loved — rich or poor —flaws and all.”

Gold-digging, certainly, isn’t the preserve of one gender. Take Anna, 49, the ex-wife of a City banker, currently involved with “a kind of gigolo” with a rackety work life and a chequered history of dating rich divorcées.

“My friends warned me about him but I didn’t listen,” she says. Alone, post-divorce in her big empty house, with her two children away at university, she was initially dazzled - not by the riches, but by the attention he lavished on her. However humdrum.

“He likes watching Gogglebox and Downton with me, whereas my ex-husband, who’s more intellectual, used to storm out of the room in a rage. And he’s always giving me advice on what to wear and offering to walk the dog late at night.”

"The peril of being rich is that it can actually put many men off"

Six months in, however, the relationship is starting to sour. “I feel as if I’m the man in the relationship – he even puts his head on my shoulder – and it’s starting to really irritate me. It’s as if our roles have reversed. And he doesn’t get on with my male friends. It only works when we’re on our own.”

Then there’s Melanie, 54, another wealthy divorcée, who having briefly dated a string of younger suitors in the immediate aftermath of her divorce – “They made me feel that I wasn’t all ropey and leathery and bitter” – is now dating more “age-appropriate men”; only to find that her money intimidates them.

“I dated this lovely guy who was interested in literature and poetry, just like I am, but in the end he couldn’t cope with the fact I owned a pile in the Cotswolds without a mortgage. He found it emasculating to take a woman out who was richer than he was.”

Melanie, an elfin mother-of-four who looks years younger than her age, says the peril of being rich is that it can actually put many men off. “Men often have a pre-conceived idea about wealthy women – they think we’re too demanding – so they don’t ask us out.”
Sometimes, says 'Lady’ Lara Asprey, 32, who runs the dating agency The Sloane Arranger, and has written a book, The Very British Rules of Dating, the men may even be right. “Rich women can, unwittingly, come across as very difficult and high maintenance,” she says.

This, clearly, isn’t Melanie’s problem. Having spent 25 years with a Midas touch spouse, holidaying in yachts in the Caribbean and luxury chalets in Klosters, she’s loving the arty new life she’s creating for herself and the men it throws in her path. “I don’t have to think about security anymore, or school fees, which means I can now cast my net much wider,” she says.

How do you find a man who isn't a gold-digger and isn't intimidated by you?

Given she doesn’t need to remarry to remain living in the manner to which she’s become accustomed, what is she looking for?

"I hate the word companion," says Melanie. "It’s so sexless, when really I’d like to find a man I can dive into bed with. There just isn’t a word for what I want. It’s everything I’d look for in a husband, perhaps, but minus the financial security.”

But how do you find a man who isn’t a gold-digger, isn’t intimidated by you, doesn’t send you down a probably doomed cougar path (Sam Taylor-Johnson may be flourishing, but it didn’t work for Demi Moore), and isn’t too much of a financial mismatch?

Mairead Molloy, married to husband no.2, a Frenchman, prides herself on being able to spot the eligible mid-life male. “They’re sharper, crisper, edgier - in sartorial terms, very Savile Row.”

And what hope for this band of super-rich women hoping to catch such a fish in a very bijou dating pool?

“I see two categories of very wealthy women out there,” says one (equally wealthy) divorced man of 56. “There’s the rich divorcée who doesn’t work and is used to a certain way of life – she can be a little spoilt. And then there’s the professional, self-made woman who may be all hard work and no play. In all honesty, neither are an easy prospect.”

Ladies Only: Five Signs You’re Dating A Future Forbes List Guy

Well, we all know money is not every thing and one would be foolish to entirely base a relationship on whether your boyfriend is on the forbes list or not. There are other things that make a relationship including trust, love and understanding but money is nonetheless important. The truth is we all can do with a little extra cash and having a rich man to provide that is way more preferable. As such, here are five signs you can pick from your struggling boyfriend that shows you should stay and wear it out with him to enjoy the life of a forbes person in the future.

People Like Him A Lot

If your man is well loved generally by people he knows and those he meets, he probably has a chance of making it to the forbes list. The reason for this is that the higher the number of people a likable man gets to meet, the higher the chance of being introduced to a profitable business venture by the people he meets. More so, because he is well liked by people generally, chances are the potential investors would trust him well enough to give him a chance to pursue his dreams. Moreover, the fact that he has a large pool of people that love him can help to provide a safe net in case things go away when he takes risks in a business venture. You may want to consider tolerating his annoying and wild friends as they most likely would have an effect on how things turn out for him in the future.

He Exudes Confidence

The truth is confident people have a better chance of getting rich despite the fact that people see them as arrogant and cocky. Their confidence should not be mistaken for being better than everyone else but as having the will to overcome whatever challenges they may face in life. Stick with him and encourage him to build his confidence more.

He Has Tall Dreams

If we take a look at the Forbes list, starting from people in the corporate world to those in entertainment, you will discover that most have some things in common. From Bill Gates, Carlos Slim to Dr Dre and Jay Z, you will discover that they all had tall dreams which they pursued to fruition. Think of all of the super wealthy people you know. Bill Gates. The hard truth is it is difficult to find someone that becomes rich doing an 8 to 5 job and if you do find out that your man has interesting ideas that branch away from the conventional, he may just be one for the future. Stick by him and help him build those dreams.

He Is Extremely Hard-Working

This is perhaps one of the most important features that every self-made rich fellow possesses. If you’re dating a man that is willing to work very hard in his chosen endeavour, mostly spending his day and nights hustling out his dreams, you may just have hit the jackpot. More so, don’t berate him for not giving you enough time and attention while he puts his dreams to work, instead be patient with him and it will probably be worth it in a couple of years.

He Spends And Invests Wisely

Not everybody can be financially responsible from the onset as people get to grow into it. As such, if you have a guy that’s a spendthrift now, you may want to give him sometime. The truth however is that it is important your man knows the value of saving for the future. You may want to study the way he spends when he obtains his salary or a huge windfall he wasn’t expecting. Does he spend or on frivolities or save a little for the future? If he saves a little for the rainy day from the little he earns now, you can expect he’d be financially responsible with more money in the future.

One thing is that these five signs do not completely indicate whether your man would become rich or not, but there’s a chance that things may turn out good if he has these attributes.

It is however important not to just be on the lookout for a rich guy only without some other important attributes. A guy that is nice enough may do as he may become wealthy after meeting you.

MAJOR TIPS THAT MILLIONAIRE MEN MUST CONSIDER WHILE DATING BEAUTIFUL WOMEN

Are you one of the most successful men in the society who is willing to date a beautiful woman? Most of the successful men consider dating one of the most gorgeous women with whom he can not only share his feelings but also make others envy. Since dating a gorgeous woman on millionaire dating site is not at all an easy task, it will certainly be wise for you to go through the vital tips to date beautiful women that are briefly discussed below.

1.Try to prove you are different

Since you are not just the only successful man in the society, it will certainly be wise to prove that you are different in all aspect. You must try to make your dating partner feel that you have some unique qualities that are not present in various other successful men in the society.

2.Do not show any sort of fear

This is also one of the major points that rich men must consider while dating a gorgeous woman in an online dating site. Beautiful women generally hate men who do not have confidence in themselves. Even though you are a rich and successful man, it doesn’t mean that she will get attracted towards you even if you do not have self confidence.

3.Treat her with care

Most of the beautiful women in the society like to be treated with extreme care. You must never hurt her feelings or even say her anything that may be insulting.

4.Do not notice her too much

Don’t forget that you are one of the most successful and even powerful men in the society and therefore it will not be wise for you to notice her too much. At first instance, it may look to be an awkward act but it will certainly help you to attract one of the beautiful women in online dating sites.

5.Don’t just try to attract her by offering gifts

This is also one of the vital points that you should consider while dating a beautiful woman in a millionaire dating site. Do not make her used to expensive gifts, rather try to analyze whether she loves you as a person. This will certainly enable you to build a strong relationship with the beautiful woman.

These are some of the major tips that will enable rich men in attracting one of the most beautiful women in online dating sites in a confident way.

Millionaire Dating Tips: How to Date a Millionaire

Are you interested in dating a rich single, and maybe, starting a family? There are certain things you should know that will help you. For instance, you should understand that while you are looking for a rich singles, they are also looking for you.

They desire to create a family as well. It is simple truth that sooner or later the time will come when every rich single will start dating, and they will choose a compatible partner for life. By following certain tips which will help you to meet a rich single, you will increase your chances of becoming found by a rich person.

One of the first things you must define for yourself before dating a rich person is the type of relationship you are looking for. Are you dreaming about seeing a rich person for a short-time? Do you want a non-committal relationship for the sake of fun and entertainment? Do you just want romance, and the romantic moments that a rich single can provide? Or is your goal a stable relationship resulting in marriage? After you determine the purpose of dating a wealthy single, then are ready to move forward to millionaire dating.

The next thing you need to do is go to places where rich singles mingle. Don’t forget to consider your interests, likes and dislikes, and your lifestyle before heading there. For example, if you love golf, then go to the golf course.

You will enjoy yourself when you develop a friendship with a person of wealth who also enjoys golf. Another option is to join a yacht club, but it helps if you have your own yacht. If you don’t have your own yacht, you can get a job at the yacht club. Propel yourself forward toward your goal with your natural motives, likes and dislikes desires.

There is one more way of meeting a wealthy person fast, which is of course, millionaire dating sites. These wealthy men dating sites have created a new niche in the ever increasing online dating scene. They allow people who are searching for new relationships to be more specific in the qualities of their new partner.

While their main users will be women, wealthy men are becoming more aware of these sites and the potential leverage they can give themselves by placing their profile on them. Of course there are requirements for the men who join and they must prove their wealth before they are allowed to become a member.

Most of the millionaire dating sites for wealthy people don’t have a fee for signing up, and there are a decent number of millionaires and qualified members registered there. So if you really want to meet and start a relationship with a rich person, you should register on these sites without any hesitation. We must understand that all of the endeavors we make, when we are focused on achieving a goal, will be rewarded.

Where the Rich Boys Are

The first thing you must do when deciding to lure a rich man is to swim with the gold fish. Place yourself around as many well heeled men as possible. The reason for this is basically a numbers game. The more rich men you are associated with the better your chances of connecting with a rich guy and eventually achieving happiness.

Actually make setting yourself up in places that rich men frequent part of your life, because the more natural you are in your environment the more trustworthy you will look to your rich prey. Remember, rich men do not become rich by being stupid. In spite of what the media says.

They are often very astute and sometimes even suspicious of women who are out to inherit their wealth, so you must be on your toes at all times.

Now just how does a woman who is out to hook a rich guy stay on her toes?

Never let your guard down! You must appear sweet, sincere, moral, and basically seeming to be living life with a definite purpose. If you don't have these qualities you can easily appear dispensable to your rich and focused friend, and the last thing you want to do is appear to be just another bimbo to your wealthy romeo.

Once you have singled out one, two or three guys who you truly feel attracted to enough to date and romance, then the rules become even more important and it is in this grey area of dating that leaves most women bitter, rejected, and desperate. It is up to you to be the one with the staying power. This is where you need to shine where other women tend to loose luster, and you will do this by being cool headed where other women are too emotional; and you will be sensible, where others are flighty, but most importantly you will be of high moral standing, and worthy of he placing you on the highest of pedestals.

Where to Find Rich Men

If you don't have a target yet, the best advice I can give you is to follow Donald Trump's advice when it comes to being successful. In Donald Trump's early years he was nobody. Sure his father was relatively successful, but truthfully now, who really knows the name Fred Trump? Donald has actually made his father a lot more famous than he would otherwise be today.

In the 1960s Donald was an unknown, with the possible exception of a minor reputation in New York as Fred Trump's son. But Donald Trump had a burning desire to make a mark for himself in the world of wealth and spent his early 20s pursuing his goals. He wanted to make connections with very wealthy men and his father simply had no connections to the world that Donald was interested in, but he was determined to find out where rich men go in order to fit in with them during casual conversations. This way they would know him personally because he would be someone who also traveled in their circles. A brilliant business strategy and success strategy!

No matter where you live in the United States you are probably not too far away from a neighborhood where wealthy men live and play. The key here is to ask yourself what type of man you want. A worthwhile tip is to go about meeting a man in a very natural situation rather than in a bar, or nightclub.

Bars and nightclubs are traditionally places where men go to find cheap and easy sex with a woman they never want to see again. Meeting a man in a situation where he is drinking with his buddies automatically has a lower chance of success towards a serious relationship than meeting a man while skiing or bike riding.

If you don't ski or snowboard, you absolutely should look into lessons. Rich men generally are more active and adventurous than poor men are, and if you are equally adventurous and physically active, you have a greater chance of earning his respect, admiration, and ultimately his friendship. These things are essential in earning his trust and interest for a long term commitment.

If your goal is to marry a rich man and you intend to reach that goal, it will require some financial investment.

Top things that rich men do:

1) Play Golf. If you go this route be sure and take lessons, read golf books and genuinely learn how to play. Its not easy to play golf and if you are not really interested, don't go to the country club dressed in pink argyle playing like a clumsy idiot! Rich men are not stupid and this will make you look like a foolish gold digger. They will not really be seriously interested in you, and will probably be suspicious instead.

2) Skiing/snow boarding. Many rich men go skiing by themselves to get away from it all. This is an expensive sport and learning how to snowboard or ski will require an investment on your part. Not just for clothes, and lessons, but for driving to the mountains by yourself on your days off. By all means, if I were to recommend just one or two essentials for your to learn it would be Golf and Skiing. These are not just sports that many rich men are involved in, but sports that by far most rich men do, and you really should learn. Lets say that you meet a rich man and begin dating him for a few months and he invites you skiing. You will feel a lot better if you are competent, well clothed and in position to enjoy the slopes with your love. Many poor women quickly become boring to wealthy men because they don't do anything. Basically, the gap in class becomes too obvious when you can't ski, play golf, or ballroom dance, and he can do just about everything under the sun, it will make you stand out against his friends, family and lifestyle as the "wrong girl" for having nothing in common with him.

3) Scuba diving. This is something that attracts many wealthy men at some point in their lives because when they take their trips to exotic destinations, or when they take their boat out, they can scuba dive and find lobster or whatever interests them. Being a certified diver could bridge the gap in your relationship and earn his interest and respect for you.

4) Fishing. Wealthy men love to relax and go fishing. They like to do simple things that take their minds away from the stress of their every day lives. Simply knowing how to fish, what kind of fish there are and joining a fishing club can have its benefits

5) Horseback riding/jumping. A lot of women are attracted to horse riding, and many rich men own horses. If you can speak their language as far as horses go, you may be able to develop a good relationship with some wealthy horse owners.

6) Charity events. It's a fact that wealthy Christian men donate thousands and sometimes millions to charities.

7) Polo matches. The sport of kings! Polo is such an expensive sport that only the rich even consider participating in it. Google "Polo Grounds" in your area and attend events, or better yet, do volunteer work at their next big event.

8) The "turf club" in the racetrack. Go to the racetrack and have a good time. Please don't just pay general admission and hang out with the poor men, but pay the extra money to get into the areas where the owners of the thoroughbreds sit. The "clubhouse" as it is often called. Some horse race tracks have special events that attract celebrities and multimillionaires all dressed to impress. The line between the general admission guests and the wealthy is distinct. The poor racetrack crowd are dressed in tee shirts and shorts while the club house crowd are seen in wide brimmed hats, designer dressed and the finest of all. The two groups are so separated that they never even see each other.

9) Volunteer work. (Political organizations or hospitals) Some women have done volunteer work in hospitals and ended up marrying doctors. Political organizations are another place to find wealthy men. I will get slightly political for just one moment. Have you ever noticed that rich, self made men are Republican? If not, then its time to pay attention. The reason for this is not because the rich are cruel, racist, or because they don't want women to have rights, and all the things that democrats like to say. If you have been glued to MSNBC then its time to turn off the telly and subscribe to The Wall Street Journal. The reason that the rich are Republican is because they are interested in business and Republicans make it possible for regular people to do business. If you are a die hard democrat, it is best to simply be quiet and don't try to impress your rich man with what you think, and if you are neutral, you should look into why the strong, business minded people are Republican. If you can actually understand and articulate why the conservative party is better for all people, including Latinos, blacks, women, and the overall middle class, then you will look a lot more intelligent and interesting than a Kool Aid drinker who thinks that democrats actually help people. Pure and simple.

Business minded people seek a political structure that allows Americans of all classes to do business and make a profit, because that is what creates a strong middle class. A strong middle class means that what ever your man's business is, it will likely prosper when the middle class has freedom. So, if you were to go to a Republican convention or rally of some kind you will likely see men and women who own a chain of hotels and who want sole proprietors, and poor people to be able to start more businesses and hire more people so that his hotels will do better and he can build more. A democrat man will likely not think with the grandness of the Republican man, and will simply have a job working for someone else rather than work for himself. That, in a nutshell is what you will experience when viewing men of both parties. If you feel strongly democrat, you probably won't meet rich men within your party, so its best to stay with hospital volunteering.

10) Investment seminars. Rich men are most often hard workers. Much harder workers than middle class or poor men. In the movies, in politics, and on televisions shows, the rich are so often portrayed as idle that we naturally think of a lazy rich man or woman lying on a couch bossing around the maid, but the reality is far different. The majority of rich men get up very early in the morning and after they have finished working at the office, will go home to continue working for hours on end. They will also live a very disciplined life compared to a man of average means. They have respect for their money and are constantly seeking out ways to invest what they have. Learning how to invest money and what kind of investments are available is a great way to a rich man's heart. Rich men work hard and value their money, and if you are able to talk to them about something that they love dearly, their money, they will have respect for you and also gain trust for you as someone who understands money as something other than something to spend lavishly. That will separate you from the flighty girls who don't understand how to invest, just how to get rid of money.

11) Car racing. A lot of rich guys have race cars and take their expensive little toys out to race tracks and have a good time trying to beat their friends race cars. See if there are any races in your area and if there are any events coming up. I used to go there with one of my rich boyfriends and I would go walking around a swarm of wealthy men with my exotic dog as millionaires and billionaires stopped me to talk about my dog. I then talked to these guys about their Cobras, or Spiders, or hand made automobiles.

12) Tennis is also a "rich sport" as most wealthy men who I personally know have at least one tennis court. You will find that a lot more rich women get deeply involved in tennis clubs and tournaments than rich men. Therefore your competition may be a little stiffer in the world of tennis than in golf, but if you are genuinely interested in the sport it can't hurt to pursue it more seriously, and of course once you are dating your rich man you will be able to play tennis with him at his house.

The worst thing for a woman to do is to be without hobbies, interests or ambition. If the only way for your guy to date you is to get dressed up and take you to dinner, then there is little hope for a future.

Hopefully you wont simply pick at your food or order a salad. If you do go out for dinner, make it interesting and go to exotic places where you can order interesting food. 

More Places to Find Rich Men

Below are some places you may meet rich men. These places are not as good as the above because they attract a more "party" attitude.

Exclusive bars and restaurants, such as Arnie' Mortons

Sports bars in high dollar neighborhoods

Exclusive/expensive nightclubs

I have talked to a lot of women about where they managed to find their rich men and these places are at the 25% success rate as opposed to the above. One girl said that she scoured the expensive nightclubs every weekend and went through several men before marrying her rich man. It took her seven years of hard work and she did not gain any knowledge, pick up any hobbies or have any real fun. If you learn how to play golf or tennis and fail a few times with a man, at least you are having fun with your hobby and learning a new sport. That is another reason to go with the suggestions above if possible. At least you will have some fun, learn something and be in a position to talk to other men after one does not work out.

The Way to Marry a Man With Money

If you have come to a point in your life where you know that what you truly want is a rich man, then by all means, do it! There is nothing wrong with wanting a man who is well stocked with resources instead of a man who struggles to pay his rent, just be sure to think things out and make moves that count towards your goal just as you would take classes that count towards your degree. Winning a millionaire is serious business that requires a well constructed plan and a cool head.

If you feel guilty about wanting a rich man just as yourself, Is it any worse than a man wanting a beautiful woman over a plain one?

Women are naturally impressed with men such as Mitt Romney, who have mastered the art of making their money grow, because it is a strongly masculine trait that only the top dogs ever master, and a goal that women seldom achieve on their own. So, don't blame yourself for being a nasty "gold digger", instead, embrace who you are and treat your quest to marry a millionaire like your part time job until you achieve your ultimate goal. Think of yourself as one of the Famous Gabor Sisters on a quest to marry a real prince charming.

That's right! Just as powerful men pursue business ventures, you should master the art of conquering rich men. Don't think for a moment that it can't be done. Just look at the scores of women from Russia or China who marry wealthy American men. Its not all about looks. Do you think that Chinese and Russian woman are all perfect 10s? The obvious answer is no, but these women do study men and learn what attracts them verses what makes them run the other way while American women walk into relationships just being themselves, laying their cards on the table and expecting to win something. The only way this none tactical tactic ever results in a man falling head over heels for you is when you are a perfect 10. Maybe even an 11, and with money of her own, no children and a calm personality. You get the general idea. It probably won't just happen for the average woman. Studying your prey and cleverly working your game is what will bring any man you want to his knees.

You would need a whole lot of everything to win a rich man or even a poor one, without a good game plan. Most women need to prove that they are worth the effort of matrimony by making the wealthy man she has her heart set on feel at ease and earn his trust through demonstrating her ultra feminine traits over a period of months or, in most situations, years.

In short, your "job" of winning a rich man's heart is truly a full time one, because you have to be on your toes at all times and never become just another common girl in his eyes.

There are sites that set women up with rich men, but these sites are NOT the best way to become aquainted with rich men. As with any other dating site, there will be men who are not wealthy at all wasting your time by posting that they own hotels, ect., and they will be looking for an easy lay. If you do go on any dating sites be sure that you NEVER go to bed with any of your dates. It is widely known among men that it is easy to 'score' on these sites.

During one of my classes a man in his early 40s gave advice to other guys who wanted easy, uncommitted sex by stating, "all you have to do is go to millionairematch.com, you can set up five different dates all week long and bang every one of them." Men have openly stated to me that girls are stupid because they will receive a few compliments and then jump into bed with them. Advice to all women is to never get into bed with a man on the first few dates, and I would say that a very wise woman who will have control of men in her life will not get into bed with a man until she has been seeing him for at least five months.

So, the problem with a sugar daddy site, besides the fact that he may not really be rich, is that you have already openly admitted you are looking for a rich man, and that will put the guy on the defensive immediately. He will likely view you as a tramp and gold digger right from the start, while he tries to score some fast nooky, making this guy even more difficult to win over than a guy you would have met in any other way. If he knows what you want, he is less likely to hand it over to you.

Rich men come in all shapes and sizes. Not all of them look like Mitt Romney, unfortunately. He is just a symbol of what almost all women truly want and never get. A strong, rich, strikingly handsome, man who is also faithful to his wife, humble, and generous. Cheers to Ann Romney for scoring big!

This is something you will just have to work out. You will see men of all ages and looks, and its up to you to decide what works for you. You may have to sacrifice some looks for bucks, and loyalty for security.

How To Marry a Millionaire

Finances, taxes and managing money have never been my strong point. To be honest my only knowledge about money is how to spend it and enjoy it. Having to write about finances has been a great challenge, I have never filled in a tax form by myself, I don’t do any investments and as I mentioned before, any money in my account seems to disappear at the speed of light. So what is my best advice to manage your finances? Easy… Marry a Millionaire!

You must be asking yourself how? That is not possible. But if you take it as a challenge, I can assure you that it is the easiest of things to do. The world is a constant war, so like in wars, you just need to have a tactic and use it. Remember to have fun in the chase, enjoy the battle and you will end up winning the war.

Here are a few tips to get you started on the hunt and marry a millionaire:

1) Go to the “right places”. Dating a millionaire is easy if you go to the right places. No offence but sitting in your living room watching romantic movies will never get you a man, never mind a millionaire! The best places I found to meet the right people are London, Marbella (Spain), Paris and the Alps.

2) Once you have chosen your target town I’d suggest you start doing some research and go to the top places. You don’t even need to spend a fortune doing this. Places where you can date a millionaire include: good restaurants, fashionable discos, art galleries, museums, the hippodrome, casinos, etc. Get to be known in these places by the right people, and soon you will make friends who will invite you to spend an afternoon at the horse-races, for example, without having to spend a penny. Mixing with the right crowd allows you entrance to the top places. I have a friend who went to boarding school in London but her family lost all their money. She continued socialising with her school friends who were always inviting her (expenses paid) to fancy holidays. Because she continued living as she was used to, surrounded by wealth and attention, she never lacked for anything. Now she is happily married to a very wealthy and influencial Londoner.

3) Do some research about the men available. Forget about the married ones, those too young (they only want to have fun with no commitment) and the too old (they cannot be bothered getting married again). This leaves you with a short list, so now learn a bit about them, their interests, hobbies, the places they frequent, their friends. This is war and you need to be sure about the tactics you are going to use.

4) Rule number one if you want to get married is: Do not look as if you want to get married. There is nothing scarier for a man than a woman desperate to settle down and cut off his freedom. Avoid the marriage subject.

5) Acquire expensive tastes. Even if you cannot afford it, learn to identify a Chanel from a Jean Paul Gaultier just as well as a Picasso from a Reuben’s.

6) Learn about perfumes, it is very flattering for a man when you can identify his personal scent.

7)      Learn to bluff your way.  Be able to talk about anything, wines, whisky, cheese, stock markets, horses, architecture, art, anything.  You don’t need to be an expert, just learn enough to bluff a little bit.  After all “your target” does not want to talk all night about the stock market with you, but it would help if you understand what he is talking about and you can come up with a few clever comments.

8)      Do not look too interested in money.  No one wants to go out with a gold-digger, at least not past a first date. 

9)     Hold your jaws tight and do not look amazed when he spends money on you.  You are not for sale. His displays of money do not surprise you.

10)     NEVER ask for presents or money.  NEVER.

11)     Learn how to behave appropriately according to where you go.  You can eat a hamburger with your hands in Mac Donalds, but if you are dining in a 5 star restaurant you are expected at least to know how and when to use the cutlery and glasses in front of you.  In Peru and France we have etiquette schools where children/adults can go to learn in a few classes the basics of etiquette.  If you cannot afford one of these schools, I am sure that you can at least find a book about it in your local library.

12)     Look your best.  Enhance your beauty.  You do not need to be a Miss World to attract a millionaire, but you need to take care of yourself so he feels proud of taking you places with him.

13)     Be mysterious.  There is no reason why you need to tell the story of your live to your “target”.  Most men are not very keen in listening to long stories anyway, and the chances are that your future husband is too busy with his business to sit next to you and console you for your misfortunes.  Remember you are looking for a wealthy husband, not a personal therapist.

14)     Listen to him.  Listen attentively even to his most boring business stories.  While he “bores you” with his stories, offer him a relaxing massage (you can learn this in books or online).  If you do it right, soon he’ll forget about his troubles and change the subject.

15) Cook for him. Yes, cook him a meal. Men who live alone are use to eating in restaurants or having a cook. If you cook for him not only will you show him that you care for him, but a home made meal will be a real treat.

16) Be fluffy. Give him the impression that you need to be loved and protected.

17) Do not criticise his friends or family. If you don’t like them you can say it but do not go around criticising them.

18) Spoil him, treat him nicely; the way you want him to treat you.

19) Never feel “intimidated”, not by his money, his friends, or the places he takes you to. Think instead that you deserve it all and more.

20) Fall in love and enjoy yourself. Do not forget to invite me to the wedding –all expenses paid of course ;)

What It’s Like to Date Rich Men and Poor Men

My grandmother told me, “It’s as easy to date a rich man as it is to date a poor man.” Or was that marry a rich man? Anyway, I’ve dated both indiscriminately.

Some own airplanes and yachts. Others have a shrinking checking account and ramen noodles in their cupboard. All I really care about is their looks … I’m only partially kidding. I prefer that my dates look like neither my grandfather nor my 21-year-old son.

This month, by coincidence, three 26-year-old “men” contacted me. They sent me messages like, “Do you like younger guys?” “Wow… You are stunning!” “You’re very cute.”

Unless they have a trust fund, I doubt they fit into the rich category. I’m told that cougar pups, young men who like older women, are either momma’s boys or are looking for rich women. I really should date a few just to find out.

Whatever the age, it’s tempting to first scroll down a man’s profile and check out his income. I don’t. I scroll down to see his politics. Someone wise said, “Politics is not just about who you vote for, but how you live your life.”

I’m attracted to the values of more moderate and liberal men; and, darn it, almost every conservative is rich. That’s why I don’t even need to look at their stated income.

Most older divorced women are worse off financially after their divorce. Shouldn’t I be more pragmatic about whom I date? At the beginning of a dinner date, I ask how he prefers to handle the bill. “Do you feel more comfortable splitting the bill, paying for what you eat or paying for the entire bill?”

Men are often surprised by this question but appreciate my upfront honesty. Secretly, I know if it’s not the last, I’m going to order soup for dinner. I don’t have the budget to eat out as often as I do on my current dating lifestyle.

The truth be told, I’m generally more attracted to financially struggling slobs who are blue-collar grease monkeys. They sweet-talk you and have a bit of an edge. You would definitely want to be at their side during a zombie apocalypse, as depicted in the popular TV series Walking Dead. A lawyer can’t argue for our survival, and I don’t need a CPA to count zombies breaking down my front door. I need a man who knows what to do with a wrench. Yes, smash the brains of those encroaching zombies.

Am I attracted to poor men because of their utility, or could it be something else?

Perhaps it all comes down to sex. I’m told that blue-collar men make better lovers. Perhaps someday I can verify that (wink, wink).